At the Voyeur Exhibitionist Community events, the word no, means NO! Verbal consent is always required before any kind of touching. That goes for EVERYONE, both men AND WOMEN. That means during someone's playtime you cannot just walk up and join in without getting verbal permission from those people involved. That also means you cannot just walk up to someone and touch their private parts. If you choose not to comply with these rules, you will be asked to leave immediately, with no refund, and never allowed to return.

Please respect your fellow VEC community/club members. Remember not all VEC members are attending for the same reasons. Some couples/singles may not be swingers at all, and may only be there to play with their spouse while others watch them in action. Therefore good and clear communication with your fellow VEC members is absolutely paramount.

Typically at a VEC event, we keep all the doors open for safety and viewing pleasure. However, if you prefer your privacy you must go to the host(s) and request the use of our private rooms. The private rooms are meant for people who do not live with each other. The private rooms are not necessarily for a married couple to play. The rooms have a time limit of 30 minutes only. Typically there is a reservation list of 3-somes, 4-somes, and large groups of people patiently waiting their turn on the private room reservation list. Therefore the host(s) will set a 30 minute timer for each group who uses the private rooms, and knock on the door when time is up. Please respect the timer.

No Unwanted Photographs or Videos Allowed. There is no taking pictures or videos of other people during the parties and events. Of course it's ok to take the pics/vids if they give you their mobile device and ask you to take the picture and video for them. In this case please ensure that only the requested group of people appear in the foreground or background of the picture and/or video.

When you are upstairs near any of the play areas, there is absolutely NO MOBILE PHONE USAGE ALLOWED. If you need to answer a call/text then kindly go downstairs and do it. Nobody wants to be on camera, and even though you may not be using your camera, it may look as if you are on camera. So if you are seen upstairs with your mobile phone out, you will be immediately asked to leave and never welcomed back.

Properly and carefully discarding your used condom is a very important part of any lifestyle event. Single males this one is especially for you. We ask that after you are finished with your condoms, please find a nearby trash receptacle and carefully place the used condom into the trash receptacle. If you are seen placing your used condom on the floor or anywhere else other than the trash receptacle, you will be asked to leave and never return.

Our group is not just an online community, we are also a house party club/group. That means we typically use our home and the homes of other VEC members to host events. We ask that you please respect our homes and treat the houses with value both inside and outside. If you make a mess in the kitchen, on the patio, or in the restroom, etc. Please take a minute and clean up your mess. If you see trash on the floor, please pick it up and place it in the nearest trash receptacle. Take care of your event location, so we can continue to have them.